What a wonderful place to be if you need a lot of care. I had the opportunity to spend time with my Aunty while she was in hospital for surgery and then later in the ICU. The ICU room is filled with people talking and writing and collaborating and observing and assessing and evaluating and making decisions.
Quite intense.
With all this they say we do not know how the person will do. It is up to them.
Perhaps it is will or ... whether or not a person is able to recover.
Maybe both.
Aunty is 92. She is full of will and determination. She held my hand very tight even when she was barely awake. Almost as though she did not have to make a conscious decision to do so. She was given a 30 to 40% chance. One person that knew her said that if the surgeon said 30 to 40 he may have meant 40 to 50 and knowing Aunt Jo you could add another 20.
Aunty will be getting out of ICU when a bed in observation is ready.